It’s really hard to be truly happy when you’re not being yourself, and most of us have no clue who we are. We all have situations that don’t look like they’re going to work out. We don’t see how we can get well, how we can accomplish a dream, how our family will be restored. All the circumstances say it’s not going to happen. How much of life do you feel like you control or how much does life control you? Do you tend to control more of what’s going on or events controlling you. If you focus on what you can’t control, if you focus on the past, if you focus on what’s missing from your life constantly, that pattern of focus will make you frustrated, overwhelmed, depressed. It won’t even matter if you’re taking antidepressants. If you keep focusing on what you can’t control, what’s missing from your life. You’re going to feel depressed until you think as many antidepressants as you want focus equals power.
It’s not whether you have the right product, it’s not whether you’re in the right field, it’s not whether you’ve had a blessed background. It’s not whether you have the right IQ. Really think about and deconstruct and play with maybe later tonight win your journal. Deconstruct this idea of confidence and it seems like a very simple work but just think about it in your own life. When you have motivation and confidence or we could even call it fire, when you have that fire within you, that confidence, that interior bravery, you almost have this power to do whatever it takes to get your brave vision done.
Find someone to help you through life. Respect everyone. Know that life is not fair, and you will fail often. But if you take some risks, step up when the times are the toughest, face down the bullies, lift up the downtrodden, and never ever give up. If you do these things, the next generation and the generations that follow will live in a world far better than the one we have today. And what started here will indeed have changed the world for the better. Let’s look at this idea of specificity for a minute.
It’s necessary that you align yourself with people and attract people into your business who are hungry, people who are unstoppable and unreasonable, people who are refusing to live life just as it is and who want more. My mother used to say birds of a feather flock together. If you run around with losers, you will end up a loser. It’s necessary that you get the losers out of your life if you want to live your dream. The challenge of life I have found is to build a resume that doesn’t simply tell a story about what you want to be, but it’s a story about who you want to be. It’s a resume that doesn’t just tell a story about what you want to accomplish, but why? a story that’s not just a collection of titles and positions, but a story that’s really about your purpose because when you inevitably stumble and find yourself stuck in a hole, that is the story that will get you out.
Motivation and confidence is simply something that you really want to wire in. Motivation and confidence is something you really want to develop, motivation and confidence is a practice, motivation and confidence is like a muscle and like any muscle, the more you focus on it and practice it and train it, the stronger your motivation and confidence is going to grow and I just have to say it again. When you are at a place in your life, when there is ongoing, steady stream of confidence moving through your mindset, moving though your heart set, you do the heroic in your business and you achieve the remarkable in your life. Stay Motivated!!